32 in 2025

My goal was 25 in ’25, and I sailed through book number 25 in the early fall, and kept on going to 32. I read so many excellent books this year: 12 five stars reviews. Two authors appear in the top 10 twice: Kate Quinn and Lisa Wingate.

Normally, I categorize the books I read by fiction and non, then rank in each category. But I didn’t read as much non-fiction this year, so I’m blending it all together. I ranked the whole list by stars.

These books are listed in order of my favorite to least favorite, and it’s just my opinion based on how much I enjoyed each book. I like history, so those books usually rate higher. I like books about strong women. It doesn’t mean my favorites are the best written or highest rated by other people – I just enjoyed reading them more or they stuck with me longer. If I don’t like a book within a few chapters, I usually won’t’ power through it.

Audiobooks are how I’m able to get through so many in a year. I’m able to listen to a lot while I’m getting ready for work, in the car, walking across campus, grocery shopping, traveling, and other piddly things. Yet, I continue to love any bookstore, and I buy books as if I’m preparing to be quarantined to my house for the next six months. For those of you that want to make a smart remark about audiobooks don’t count as real books, I still got the content, this is just how I have to get great stories in the chapter of life that I’m in.

📚 = 2025 Book club books 📖 = 2026 Book club books

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The Briar Club by Kate Quinn
Kate Quinn’s books are always excellent. She doesn’t have a formula, and she isn’t predictable. I would classify this as a historical fiction/thriller. 
There are multiple main characters, all living in a Washington, DC boarding house. The chapters are each told from one character’s point of view, each revealing a little more toward the plot. The house is even a character, which sounds weird, but it works.
This book is set in the 1950s, which is often made out to be an idyllic time in American history, but a lot of heavy stuff was happening, and she packs it in with a story that is a compelling – McCarthyism, Russian spies, racism, women’s rights and equal pay, spousal abuse, family dynamics, Hungarian immigrants trying to make their way in the US, the lavender scare, birth control and oh yeah- a double murder. So much is packed in here and it was such a fun read.

The Frozen River  by Ariel Lawhon 📖 
Wonderful! A five-star historical fiction story set in our nation’s infancy on the East Coast. 
This book is a murder mystery, a midwife’s tale, a family story, and a book about strong women. It was beautifully written and expertly unfolded. This was my first Lawhon novel and I’ll read more. I thoroughly enjoyed her author’s notes. One of the elements about the story that I appreciated the most was that the main character, Martha Ballard, was a real person. Lawhon found some information about her, conducted extensive research, and then wove together a story of mostly fact, sprinkled in some fiction, and created a story that will keep you spellbound. A masterpiece!

James by Percival Everett 📚
You know the characters – Huck Finn and Big Jim – but this was a brilliant way to tell this story. It’s from Jim’s – actually James’ – point of view. I didn’t want to read this one at first. I was afraid it would be heavy and hard to read. In places it was very heavy, as James is escaping from the horrors of enslavement. However, it was easy and quick to read. It’s beautifully written, a storyline that moves well, interesting characters that move in and out of the story, and a very surprising plot twist.
This book pulled at my heart and the hearts of thousands of others as it was one of the highest rated books of the year on GoodReads. A must read, and I wouldn’t mind if this became required reading in schools.

From Here to the Great Unknown by Lisa Marie Presley & Riley Keough
For years Lisa Marie Presley had participated in interviews with the purpose of writing her memoir, but she never could get the project completed. After her death, her daughter, Riley Keough, completed the story and filled in the blanks – and the book consumed me. I highly recommend the audiobook.  Riley read the parts she wrote. Julia Roberts read Lisa’s part, with some of Lisa’s original audio sprinkled in. 
I’ve been an Elvis Presley fan all my life, and I know plenty about him. It was great to know his daughter’s story. It’s heartbreaking and an informative testimony about childhood grief, children of an addicts, adult addiction, and losing a child. Riley is a fantastic actress, and I love catching mannerisms and expressions from her mom and grandfather. She stars in Daisy Jones & the Six on Amazon Prime (but it was a great book first 😊).

Shelterwood by Lisa Wingate 
This book is set in Southeast Oklahoma. Each chapter starts with an historic quote, and many are from Angie Debo, a librarian and historian who was a good friend of my great aunt. It also contained a scene where one of the characters goes to Oklahoma State, my alma matter, for a career fair, which made me extremely happy. Although, she should have written in lunch at Eskimo Joe’s…
The story jumps between 1909 and 1990, then ties together beautifully at the end. The 1909 storyline is of two little girls escaping an abusive home. The 1990 story is about a park ranger trying to solve a mystery of the skeletons of three children found in a cave and a missing teenage boy. This book contains a subplot about Kate Barnard, a great woman in Oklahoma history that I had never learned about. I hope this book brings her story to light and that young Oklahomans will learn her story from now on. She was a hero to lots of orphaned children. 
This is fabulous historical fiction, and I love that it’s from my home state. You’ll notice my next book is also by Lisa Wingate. Shelterwood edged out the next book because it’s set Oklahoma 😊

The Book of Lost Friends by Lisa Wingate 
Captivating, masterful storytelling, and beautiful weaving of a story told 100 years apart- 1880s and 1980s. The Book of Lost Friends was a real thing; it was a column in a regional paper designed to help families and friends find one another following the Civil War. This book delves into slavery, settling the American West, family squabbles, racism, poverty, and how families were torn apart and displaced throughout the country following the war. It is pieced together with a love of books and preserving family stories.
It was fun to read about the characters going places like Menard, Mason, and Fredericksburg more than 100 years ago. They’re all great Texas Hill Country town that I enjoy today.

The Phoenix Crown by Kate Quinn & Janie Chang
Kate Quinn has two books in the top 10 this year. This story was set around the time of the San Francisco earthquake in 1906. It follows two women – an opera singer and a Chinese immigrant who was an expert seamstress. The two could not have had more different lives and backgrounds, but they become fast friends just before and during one of the worst natural disasters in American history.  They work to escape a scheming, thieving evil man in San Francisco, all while trying to stay alive as the city crumbles around them. Kate employs a co-author for this book and I enjoyed learning about their process in the author’s notes.

Black Cake by Charmaine Wilkerson
This is not a cookbook 😀 It’s a book about family, secrets, mistakes, misunderstandings, and forgiveness, all bound together by the family’s recipe for black cake. The story jumps around a lot, but the writer is so good that I never felt lost. The story was expertly told and the plot twist at the very end was brilliant. 
I just can’t bring myself to want to try a slice of black cake, which is basically a fruit cake, but the fruit is soaked in rum and port. It’s popular in the Caribbean at the holidays. However, I do want to read more by Charmaine Wilkerson. If her other books are this good, I’ll have another slice.

Lessons in Chemistry by Bonnie Garmus
Fabulously clever! Elizabeth Zott is a brilliant scientist, and she wants to do so full time. Unfortunately, she is the wrong gender working in the wrong decade. So, she has to “settle” for being a television cook that sneaks chemistry lessons into the show. 
This book has a wonderful plot line with compelling twists that kept me guessing, major and minor characters that are so well developed that I felt like I knew them, and an ending that ties everything together beautifully. The story deals with a lot of cultural issues of the 1950s and 60s – it was the perfect story to finish during the same weekend as International Women’s Day.

The Wedding People by Alison Espach
This story was everything I wanted it to be and a nice change from the heavier book I had read before. I even loved the cover. This story took a tough topic – a suicide attempt – and navigated it delicately, injected a little humor, and ended exactly the way it should have. It wasn’t a storybook ending, but it was the right ending.

The Many Lives of Mama Love: A Memoir of Lying, Stealing, Writing, and Healing  by Lara Love Hardin
Wow. We could all read a nonfiction book like this. I like reading books that reveal a person at their lowest – it grows my empathy and shrinks my judgment. I almost couldn’t believe that a story this wild could be true. I was angry with Mama Love in the beginning for some of the decisions she was making that put her family in jeopardy. Midway through, I was cheering for her to succeed. This really helped me understand addiction and chronic incarceration.  

First Lie Wins by Ashley Elston
This should be a movie. Clever plot, thrilling twists, interesting characters. The main character goes down a trail and I really didn’t like her, then it changes. This is a book about a con artist. She has what looks like a perfect relationship and life, but it’s all fake, part of her con. But as with many things, emotions come into the story and everything changes and the con gets all messed up. 

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The Favorites by Layne Fargo
Loved it! This book was so cleverly done. It reads like a documentary meets memoir. I love ice skating, Olympics, drama, love stories, and documentaries and this book blends all these things. It was a fun summer read.

The Girl from the Train by Irma Joubert 📚
Not to be confused with The Girl ON the Train. I hesitated to start this book because I was afraid it would be sad. It was, and at times I cried. After all, that train the girl was on was bound for Auschwitz. The poor girl had so many awful things come her way. But then it got better. A family in Poland finds her, and one of the family members takes her under his wing. He ensures she has a good education and a better life than could be offered in post-World War II Europe. The book has a happy ending and sweet characters, although it did get a little odd at the end. 

Cher: The Memoir, Part 1 by Cher
This book is long, but it is good! I have always liked Cher, but now I’m a big fan- and this book only covers her life up until she started acting. Cher has so many connections to mega famous people and she has done so much. I was amazed, entertained, and amused. The “book” goes on (get it?): Part 2 of her life story comes out in November 2026.

The Personal Librarian by Marie Benedict & Victoria Christopher Murray 📚
Great book and a cool story about a person and place that I didn’t know existed. I knew about JP Morgan, but didn’t know he had a fabulous library, nor did I know he had a personal librarian. This is her remarkable, inspiring, fascinating story. This is mostly non-fiction, but the authors had to take some liberties to fill in the story where they lacked information or to move the story along. The Morgan Library & Museum is open to this day to the public, thanks to her work building the collection. 

The Covenant of Water by Abraham Verghese 
I’m so proud of myself for reading this. It’s long, well over 700 pages, 30 hours of audio book, but I finished, and I’m a better person for it. 
The book it jumps around a lot. You’ll wonder why we go from India to Scotland several times, but it worked. All the side characters and side stories come together in the end. I wanted to give up on this book several times, but something about it kept me coming back.  This book is an epic tale of an Indian family. It’s about love, faith, and family. Some of the side stories and details could be trimmed out but the writing is so beautiful. 
I gave four stars just because of the length, otherwise it would have been five. 

The Book Woman’s Daughter by Kim Michele Richardson 
This was exactly what I wanted as the sequel to The Bookwoman of Troublesome Creek. Honey Lovett, the daughter of Cussy Mary, is just as lovable, spirited, and full of grit as her mother. The story moves well and keep you rooting for Honey throughout. I would recommend reading the first book before this as you need to know the book woman’s story before her daughter’s.

The Echo of Old Books by Barbara Davis 
Very clever, interesting story, good characters that I was rooting for. I really liked the element about psychometry: The main character can touch a book and feel the emotions of the previous owner. I wanted more of that story line, but otherwise I enjoyed the backstories. The book skips around a lot, but the author does so in a way that makes sense.

Incidents Around the House  by Josh Malerman 
😱😱😱😱I am still not okay after this one!
I don’t usually do scary books, but I wanted to try something different. I dove headfirst into a book that many readers said was the scariest thing they ever read. This book grabbed me at the first paragraph, and I was both spellbound and terrified until the end. I’m not kidding – first paragraph! The writing was so good.
I gave the book four stars because I hated the ending. My book fanatic friend Kristy absolutely loved the ending – this was one of her 2024 recommendations and said it was her favorite ending of the year. If you like creepy/scary, this is one for you. Do not read it at night, unless you like nightmares, but I would rather have snake dreams.

Remarkably Bright Creatures by Shelby Van Pelt
This was such sweet story. I really enjoyed it and I got through it quickly. 
This book was about a young man that is trying to get his life together. It’s a good story of friendship. I especially liked the story trope of caring for creatures, even if they’re a giant Pacific octopus or a stray cat. The story includes chapters told from the point of view of the octopus, which was fun. Some of the scenes are a little too far-fetched or convenient, but I didn’t care. It kept me entertained. This was the author’s first book, and I look forward to more.

The Racketeer by John Grisham 
I love that John Grisham has a formula, but I can’t follow the formula. He has a style, and I know it, but he’s never predictable. My annual Grisham book was just as, if not more enjoyable as all his other books. Interesting characters, suspense, surprise, humor. This one kept me guessing, and Grisham kept his spot as one of my favorite authors.

Ask for Andrea by Noelle W. Ihli 
This was a fitting read for October. It creeped me out. It didn’t help that I was listening to it while driving alone on a work trip. This was a clever book that was rooted in the afterlife. The author’s view of the afterlife is different from mine, but that’s okay. I was entertained and invested in the characters. At a certain point I had to know what happened and couldn’t put it down. 

Playing with Myself  by Randy Rainbow
I think you need to be a Randy Rainbow fan to appreciate his story. If you’re unfamiliar with him, start with his YouTube channel, @RandyRainbow. Watch no fewer than 10 videos, then you may read the book. Maybe don’t watch at work. He’s deliciously disrespectful. I would recommend the audiobook, read by the author. Also, his mom makes an appearance, and she’s adorable. 

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All the Colors of the Dark by Chris Whitaker 📖
Ok, Ok. I have the unpopular opinion here. Everyone else loved this book. It has super high ratings on every list everywhere, and I know there’s something wrong with me. I wish I could give this book 3 1/2 stars. It was a great story. The plot was interesting and all the characters – main and supporting – were expertly developed. But this book was much longer than it needed to be. The middle was messy and goes down a spiral that I felt was unnecessary. However, I loved the atypical love story – not romantic love. I liked the trope of building a family out of the people that come into your life.

Book Lovers by Emily Henry 
This was a fun spring break read. Cute story, fun plot. It intentionally mirrors a Hallmark movie. The thing I liked most was how much the characters loved books, thus the title. First time to read this author. I put more of her books in the “want to read” pile. I would have liked to have given this 3 ½ stars, but GoodReads doesn’t do half stars. 

Ugly Love by Colleen Hoover 
Not my favorite Colleen book, but still worth a read. The characters grabbed me quickly and I wanted to know their stories. However, I spent a good bit of time being annoyed with both main characters. In the end, I understood them and liked the predictable ending. I read the Covenant of Water just before, so this was a perfect change of pace and an easy read. 

North Woods by Daniel Mason 📚
I see what all the hype for this was about, but this just wasn’t my type of book. 
The concept is great. It’s a story of a house, a farm, and its inhabitants over time. It was essentially a series of short stories with a common thread: the house/farm. I probably would have liked it better if I would have read the hard copy, rather than the audio book. Some of the story I didn’t follow, but it was a cool concept.

The Tipping Point: How Little Things Can Make a Big Difference by Malcolm Gladwell
This is a quick, fun read about trends in business. It’s classic Gladwell storytelling with fun side stories. It held my attention and kept me entertained, but not my favorite book of his.

The Anxious Generation: How the Great Rewiring of Childhood Caused an Epidemic of Mental Illness 
by Jonathan Haidt
This is a book about how phones and social media make our kids anxious (among other things), but after reading this now I’M anxious. This made me question my parenting. But I still have time to fix my kid. Maybe.
Great points made here. Keep your kids off social media, probably forever.

Normal People by Sally Rooney 📚 
This book held my attention, and I wanted to see what happened, but I didn’t love this one. The characters annoyed me. The lack of quotation marks annoyed me. The fact that it was rated so highly, but I didn’t love it annoyed me. I can see why others rated this one well, but it just wasn’t my kind of book. Someone in our book club said she read it twice, and loved it the second time. Yeah, I’m not reading this one twice. 

Silos, Politics and Turf Wars: A Leadership Fable About Destroying the Barriers That Turn Colleagues Into Competitors  by Patrick Lencioni
Nice book about leadership. I got some good tips out of it. It was a quick listen and the Libby app had it. 

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Original Sin: President Biden’s Decline, Its Cover-Up, and His Disastrous Choice to Run Again by Jake Tapper 
I feel un-American and like I’m turning on the journalism by giving this book two stars. 
First the good. This was excellent journalism. It was so well researched and sourced. I like Jake Tapper and was proud of his work in this book. This book will shock and disgust you about the cover up with the Joe Biden presidency. I was disappointed in myself by everything I fell for.
The reasons I gave it only two stars: It got very repetitive. I felt like I was hearing the same story over and over with different people or situations. In places, it read like a qualitative dissertation. I tend to stay away from political books, and this is why. I just get mad. In all, I’m so glad he wrote this, and I’m glad I read it. I learned as much about myself and my gullibility as I did the Biden Administration.

I noticed two common themes this year about the books I read. Several reinforced and encouraged my love of books: 

  • The Book of Lost Friends. One of the characters is a high school teacher that works very hard to encourage her students to love to read. 
  • The Book Woman’s Daughter. This book is about the packhorse librarians in the Kentucky mountains in 1930s & 40s. They wanted people to learn to and love to read. 
  • The Echo of Old Books. This is a book about a small bookshop owner. How could it not encourage a book lover?
  • Book Lovers. I mean, it’s in the title!

Another common thread this year was that many of the books strengthened my faith, encouraged prayer, or had a different point of view of faith than mine.  

  • The Frozen River. The main character was very faithful and in a loving marriage. They prayed regularly in the book. I think if you’re a midwife in a new country and living in New England in the winter, you would have to have a very strong relationship with God. 
  • Black Cake. The mother in this book had a strong faith. It was nice thread woven throughout. 
  • The Many Lives of Mama Love. She prayed A LOT. Prayer got her through.
  • The Girl from the Train. This one was interesting. The “girl” was half Jewish, found by a Polish Catholic family, then raised by a protestant family. She had lots of different religions to draw upon and those religions didn’t always work well together. 
  • The Covenant of Water. The book is set in a region of India where many people are Christians. They had a very strong faith which was a big tie throughout the story. 
  • Ask for Andrea. This book didn’t have a shred of religion in it, but as I said in my review, the author’s view of afterlife is different from mine. The characters didn’t necessarily go to heaven. Sometimes a different point of view helps reinforce your own.

My goal this year is to not purchase so many books. I usually end up listening through the Libby or Audible app anyway. I’m in a leadership development program, so I’ll read more leadership books. We have a trip to England planned for this year, so I’m looking for fun stories that would be good to read ahead of that trip – I’m open to suggestions.

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29 in ’24

It’s been a year since my last blog post, and last year’s post was about the books I read. I guess I’ve been reading and not blogging. My reading goal was 24 in 2024. I exceeded my goal and read 29, but for some reason, the cute little graphic that Good Reads made for me didn’t count my last book of the year. Weird. As always, audio books helped me accomplish my goal. It’s so easy to hit play as I’m getting ready for work, driving, cooking, traveling, or doing other little tasks, and listening to a story is a great way to fill that time. The Libby app and my sister’s Audible account helped me listen in an affordable way.

My only goal this year, other than the number of books, was to find a local book club, and I’m so glad I found one, thanks to my friend Stephanie. I don’t know if our group has a name or not, but we meet once a month, and they’re the most inspiring, friendly, and smart group of fellow bookworms that I could have asked for. I’ve really had fun getting to know this group, and they’ve pushed me to read books that I wouldn’t normally find.

I enjoyed fiction books much more than non-fiction this year, so I’ll start with that category. The books are listed in order of most favorite to least favorite. Just because something is further down on the list doesn’t mean it wasn’t good. If I don’t like a book, I won’t continue reading it, and I won’t leave a bad review for it. I’ve written two books, and I know how horrible it feels to have someone post a bad review. So, here are my (positive only) reviews.

Fiction

The Women by Kristin Hannah
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Women can be heroes too – that’s the theme of this book. This was a historical take on the very real stories of the women who served as nurses during the Vietnam War. 
This story will rip your heart out, then give you all kinds of hope. It’s masterfully told- I couldn’t put it down. 
I know that World War II stories are very popular, but I would love to see more from this era, preferably by this writer. I cannot say enough good things about this book. Go get it today and start reading it. My book club is reading this in early 2025.

The Book Woman of Troublesome Creek by Kim Michele Richardson
Absolutely delightful and another five star book.
This book was similar to The Giver of Stars by Jojo Moyes, and oddly enough, was published in the same year (2019). The books are similar in that they are both about the pack horse librarians in the Appalachian mountains, specifically the coal mining areas of Kentucky and West Virginia, in the 1930s. However, in this book, the main character is a Kentucky blue person. Google it- they really existed. These people were so different that you can imagine how poorly they were treated, and the main character in this book endures a lot of social, emotional, verbal, and even physical abuse. Her story pulled at my heart, but with most good books, it had a happy ending, a good dose of drama – all the things. It’s a wonderful little story. I pitched this as a possibility for my book club and we’re going to read it this spring.

It Ends With Us by Colleen Hoover
I feel like I was the last person in the nation to read this, but it was rarely available on Libby, at the library, or the half price book sale, so I finally broke down and paid full price. It was worth it. I finished it about a month before the movie was released.
This was such a great story about a young woman with two great loves, how she fell in love with both guys, and how one broke her heart. The book’s sub theme of domestic violence teaches us that it’s never simple when dealing with a mean partner. I am ashamed to admit how quickly I have said that I would leave an abusive man, or I would knock him flat. You just don’t know, and it’s so complicated. This book taught me so much and helped me be less judgmental of situations I fortunately don’t understand.  
Great story, great lesson. Highly recommend. I also loved the movie. It was almost as good as the book, but not quite. If you’ve seen the movie, I would recommend reading the book anyway, as always, the book has so much more details. Blake Lively is perfect for the part of Lilly Bloom – well, she’s perfect in everything. #IStandWithBlake

Winter Garden by Kristin Hannah
Two Kristin Hannah books in one year, both in the five star category.
This book is one of her older novels, published in 2010. I don’t know how I have missed this one for so long.
I flew through this – there’s just something about her writing that keeps me turning the page. Kristin Hannah is one of my most favorite authors, and I’m disappointed in myself for putting this book off so long. It’s a brilliant tale of mothers and daughters, sisters, and husbands and wives, with World War II/Leningrad as a backdrop. I learned a lot, cried a little, and loved this story.

The Paris Seamstress by Natasha Lester
This was a wonderful book to conclude my 2024 reading journey. Excellent storytelling, great characters, very creative.
This book bounces from World War II and modern day and follows two women: Estella (the grandmother) and Fabienne (the granddaughter), and we see how their stories develop and intertwine. Estella is a clothing designer in the 1940s; Fabienne is a museum designer with a talent like her grandmother’s in clothing design. Oddly enough, Fabienne doesn’t know a lot about her grandmother’s story. The author does a beautiful job of slowly revealing Estella’s story while Fabienne develops a story of her own. I may recommend this for book club next year.

The Huntress by Kate Quinn

Great story by one of my most favorite authors. Kate Quinn is a master of character development, research, and storytelling. I enjoy her author’s notes and details about gathering her ideas almost as much as the story itself. 
This story mostly takes place after World War II. The book hops around to different characters and time periods which kept me interested, but sometimes when I read late at night, I got confused. 
Once I realized where the story would go, I couldn’t put it book down, and I can’t wait to read Quinn’s next book, The Briar Club. It’s in the cue and I’ll start it in the next week or two. I have to space her books out because I get really involved with the characters and sometimes I have dreams that I’m part of the story, which is probably the mark of a great book.

Take My Hand by Dolen Perkins-Valdez
This was a beautiful work of historical fiction about a very ugly series of events in American history. 
In the 1960s and 70s the federal government funded forced sterilization of Black Americans. This is the story of a nurse in a family planning clinic that takes a family under her wing, and their two daughters were forced into sterilization. 
The characters were so compelling and the story was gripping. A must read. This was one of our book club books.

Prize Women by Caroline Lea
Have you ever heard of the Stork Derby? In short, an eccentric man left a fortune in his will to the woman that had the most babies in a 10 year period. And it just happened to be during the Great Depression. Hundreds of women had lots-o-babies in a time period when money was very tight. Google this. You’ll be flabbergasted to learn that this really did happen.
This book takes that bit of history and places two fictional characters in the middle of it. It’s the story of unlikely friendship, extreme poverty, heartbreaking betrayal, and the trials of motherhood. 
This was the first book I read when I finally found my book club. The book is a little long, but worth it because it was so fascinating.

The Paris Apartment by Lucy Foley
This book kept me guessing. And as I got to the end I couldn’t stop reading. This is my second Lucy Foley novel, and I love her writing style. She hooks me into the story within the first few pages, invests me into the characters quickly, and keeps me turning the page. In both of the books I have read of Foley’s, she gives each character his or her own chapter, which also helps move the story along. In the bottom of a Paris apartment building is a locked room, and the residents of the building all have something to hide inside. The story will keep you fascinated until the very end.
I listened to the audiobook, and each character had their own narrator which also added interest to the book.

Did You Hear About Kitty Carr by Crystal Smith Paul
This was an interesting, unexpected story about a 1950s mega star and the secret she kept all her life. This is a story about lies, racism, and sexism. The story is good. It kept me guessing, and I enjoyed the way it wrapped up. The ending seemed a little rushed, as in the story just kind of ended, but I wanted more information. In all, it was a great story that I would recommend. Another book club book.

The Magnolia Palace by Fiona Davis
I checked this book out in search of a good travel story and finished it before I ever left. My reading hero, Kristy, said this was the best rated PG book she read last year, and it was one of the best I read this year.
This book had all the things- relatable characters (except for an eccentric main character), excellent story, fun plot twist. AND it was set in a real museum in New York City – the Henry Clay Frick Collection. If I ever get to go back to New York, I’ll add this as a site to see.

A Redbird Christmas by Fannie Flagg
Delightful! This short novel is a sweet story that warmed my heart just in time for Christmas. This was a book club pick, and it took me several chapters to realize that I had read this book before, but it had been almost 20 years ago. However, I enjoyed the book just as much the second time around. I love Fannie Flagg’s writing. Her characters seem like people I know. Her towns are familiar to me. Her stories are fun and light hearted. 
If you need a pick me up or just a fun story, this one is great.

Sisters in Arms by Kaia Alderson
This was a nice story about the Women’s Army Corps (WAC) during World War II. My great aunt was in the WAC, so I knew about this group of remarkable heroines, but I didn’t know there was a unit for black officers. This was a story of friendship, heroism, racism, loss, and the incredible stress of wartime, then add in a few military officials didn’t respect this group of officers. I really wanted an epilogue to tell me what parts of the story were real and which were fictional. There is a Netflix series coming soon starring Kerry Washington that looks like a similar story that I’m excited to see.  

The Handmaids Tale by Margaret Atwood
This book kind of blew my mind, and I haven’t watched the Hulu series yet – I don’t know if I want to. The book was written in 1985, and its a futuristic tale of women losing their power in society. It unnerved me because in the book, they came after the media and well educated women first. Well, at one time, I was a reporter, and now I have a doctoral degree – it hit a little too close to home.
I listened to the audiobook, and the narrator, Betty Harris, is captivating. She makes Margaret Atwood’s poetic words come to life. I rated three stars because I got a little lost in some of the time hopping, and I didn’t really get invested in the characters as much as I would have liked.

Camino Winds by John Grisham
I love a good Grisham book. I read at least one a year. This year I read two. This was a little different for his writing, but I enjoyed the story nonetheless.
This is the second book in the Camino Island story, but I don’t think you would need to read the first book to understand what is going on. The story centers around Bay Books, a fictional bookstore in Florida that I would totally shop at if it really existed and if I lived in Florida. It took me a while to figure out who the main character was, but once I got a few chapters in, I was hooked. Good characters, good ending – a fun vacation read.

Hotel Nantucket by Elin Hilderbrand
Let it be known that I read this book months before The Perfect Couple came out on Netflix and made Elin Hilderbrand an author known by all.
This was a nice spring break read. The story was fun with characters I was rooting for. It had a ghost which was a fun twist. I wanted more from the ghost, but otherwise, it was entertaining. I want to go to Nantucket now. This was my first book from this author. I’ll read more.

Killers of a Certain Age  by Deanna Rayburn
This is a great book. The plot is perfect. The characters are captivating. The ending is excellent. It just took me forever (as in eight months) to get through and I don’t know why. But this was a fun read and I recommend it. 
My fellow book lover, Courtney G., has a theory. There is something about the page color and texture combined with the font that can make someone sleepy. 🤷🏻‍♀️ I like this idea because there is no other reason why this book took me so long. The book is about a group of four women spies that are in their retirement years, but someone wants them dead. It was a very clever concept, and I wonder if I would have enjoyed the audio book more.

One True Loves by Taylor Jenkins Reid
Castaway meets The Notebook. This was a sweet story about true love, and how it can happen twice. But what happens when the two love stories intersect?
Not my favorite Taylor Jenkins Reid book but it moved quickly and held my attention. She has a new book coming out next year, and I’m excited to read it.

The Rooster Bar by John Grisham
This was classic Grisham. It’s a tale of three law students at a dumpy DC law school. The students use their intelligence to get in on a class action lawsuit. I took this one on our cruise and it was a perfect vacation read. This had the suspense and twists that reminded me of The Firm or A Time to Kill.

It Starts With Us by Colleen Hoover
This is the continuation of It Ends With Us. It picks up immediately after the first book. Just because I have this ranked at the end of my books for this year doesn’t mean I didn’t like it. I just wasn’t as captivated by it as I was the first book. It’s a good story, I already loved the characters, so it was easy to want to follow along and find out what happens to them. It was worth the time to read it, and I liked that Colleen Hoover took the time to wrap up this storyline and give these characters the ending they deserved. Note: You must read It Ends With Us first before you read It Starts With Us, it won’t make much sense otherwise, and I personally don’t think the movie will substitute. You really need to read the first book to get some of the references in the second book.

Non-Fiction

Very Punchable Face by Collin Jost
A very lovable read. I had to wait months to get this from the Libby app and it was worth the wait.
This book had me belly laughing some times, giggling most of the time, and wanting to meet Colin Jost all of the time. And when I say belly laughing, there was one day that I was doubled over laughing at one of his stories. This book was so light hearted and fun- it was the perfect way to start my summer reading. There’s something for everyone to enjoy. ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

How Y’all Doing?: Misadventures and Mischief from a Life Well Lived by Leslie Jordan
Absolutely joy-filled. I read this when a lot was happening in my life, and this book, along with Leslie’s East Tennessee drawl, was a happy place I got to be every time I got in my car. 
I wish I would have become a Leslie Jordan fan earlier. I love everything about him – his humor, joy, confidence, storytelling, accent – but most of all, his light. I’m sad he has passed on, but I love that his stories – in his own voice – will live forever. This is one that I would definitely get the audiobook for.

Oath & Honor: A Memoir and a Warning by Liz Cheney
I could not put this book down. Former Wyoming Representative Liz Cheney details her experiences on Jan. 6, 2021, then her service on the Congressional investigation. Her service on that committee ultimately cost her a seat in Congress. She did what she thought was right, and she didn’t care if it cost her seat. Doing the right thing was more important to her than an elected office. I wish more people would choose morals over keeping their power.

The Situation Room: The Inside Story of Presidents in Crisis by George Stephanopoulos & Lisa Dickey
I listened to this book in November 2024, a month when I was giving a lot of thought to the American presidents, past and future: the decisions they make, the stress they’re under, the people they have to please, the people they anger, and how it never ends. 
This book, cowritten by Good Morning America co-anchor George Stephanopoulos, takes us inside one of America’s most famous, yet secretive rooms-The Situation Room. President Kennedy had the idea and pulled together the first version of it, and every president since has used it to varying degrees. The room has been refined and remodeled over the years. Johnson thrived on it. Nixon and Trump hated it. This book gives us a great deal of insight with each president since Kennedy. It’s a great slice of American presidential history. 
I really liked the audiobook. George reads it and he includes clips of interviews and archival footage that provide an interesting texture to the stories. 

Five Presidents: My Extraordinary Journey with Eisenhower, Kennedy, Johnson, Nixon, and Ford by Clint Hill and Lisa McCubbin Hill
Clint Hill is the secret service agent you see leaping into President Kennedy’s car seconds after he was shot in Dallas. In this book, he shares his entire career with the United States Secret Service. 
I started this book wanting the secrets of the service. I wanted to know what REALLY happened that the public didn’t know or see with Presidents Eisenhower, Kennedy, Johnson, Nixon, and Ford. This book didn’t offer much of that, just some small bits here and there. At first I was disappointed, but the more I read, I realized that Clint Hill is a man with a great deal of integrity; he was a good agent. What kind of a good agent would spill the secrets? So, I simply enjoyed the stories of his time working mere feet away from the most powerful men in the world. It’s a quick read and enjoyable. 

The Woman In Me by Britney Spears
Britney’s life hasn’t been easy and her book goes into so many details to describe it. She has been working since she was 10, had her heart broken several times (sometimes very publicly), and, according to the book, her parents were pretty horrible to her. She hasn’t had much time to forge good friendships with people she can trust. And that’s just the top level stuff. This is her side of the story and if you’ve been following Britney’s career as long as I have, you need to hear her side. I really hoped she would discuss her disastrous concert in Lubbock, but she skipped that part. 

Women & Money by Suze Orman
If you want/need to get your money straight this is incredibly helpful. I read it to be reassured that I’m doing the right things. I picked up a few tricks for my son’s college fund and my retirement savings.

The Last Black Unicorn by Tiffany Haddish
This book is best reviewed with emojis: 🫣🫣🤭🤭🤭🙉🙉🙉😆😆😆😆🙉🙉🙉🤭🤭🤭
If you get the audiobook, don’t listen with kids around. Or other humans. 

Trust & Inspire: How Truly Great Leaders Unleash Greatness in Others by Stephen M.R. Covey
This was a helpful book for work. It has some great lessons. It was a little dry though.

And that’s all! There are several great books to be published in 2025 that I’m excited about, and my book club has some interesting titles coming up in the next few months.

For 2025, this isn’t a reading goal, but clearly, I need to blog more. Several years ago, I set out to read the autobiography of each president and First Lady that has been in office in my lifetime. I didn’t make any progress toward that goal this year. I’ll start 2025 with Rosalynn Carter’s book, First Lady from Plains, as Jimmy Carter passed away yesterday. And in keeping with the my goals from the past few years, my goal is to read 25 in ’25. If you care to follow me on Good Reads, I’m easy to find: Erica Irlbeck.

23 in 2023

Not only did I reach my goal of 23 books in 2023, I crushed that goal with 27. Audio books helped me get through so many books this year. I love reviewing the books through the GoodReads app, and the app makes it so easy to look back at what I read.

I had four goals this year, and two didn’t happen. One of my unaccomplished goals was to find a local book club. If you have a book club in Lubbock, please invite me. I promise to not dominate conversation, and I bake!
These were my 2023 goals:

  • Read 23 books ✅
  • Find a local book club that meets in person. ❌
  • Read one book that is considered a classic. ❌
  • Read four books that are released this year. ✅
    • I’m giving myself leeway on this one, because I read several books that had been released in the last 12 months, but not necessarily 2023.

I’m dividing the books up into broad categories of fiction and non-fiction. I read more fiction than non this year, so I’ll start with that category. The books are listed in order of most favorite to least favorite. Just because one of these wasn’t a favorite doesn’t mean it wasn’t good. If I don’t like a book, I just won’t finish nor review it. The non-fiction category was filled with greatness. It was hard to rank them, they were all so good. 

Fiction

The Diamond Eye by Kate Quinn

Last year’s favorite fiction, and this year’s top two books are by Kate Quinn. Historical fiction is my favorite genre, and she’s quickly becoming a favorite writer. Also see The Alice Network, a World War I story. I chose The Diamond Eye as my favorite because I just couldn’t quit talking about it and recommending it. I’m calling this a required book for fans of historical fiction, World War II stories, people interested in the Soviet Union, or basically any American. Excellent storytelling, research, description, and captivating writing. The book is about a Soviet sniper during the Second World War that just happened to be a woman. The story is true and it’s fascinating. It has great twists along the way, and although the author takes some liberties with embellishing the story, it’s very close to the truth.

The Rose Code by Kate Quinn
This book could almost go into the non-fiction category. Read the author’s notes at the end (and you have permission to skip ahead to do this, it won’t ruin the book) to see how she wove fictional elements with real characters to create a fascinating read. The research that went into this book was incredible. It follows three young women that worked as code breakers in England during World War II. The characters are strongly based on real people, and it’s so captivating. This was also the lengthiest book I read this year, so it took me a while. 

Coronation Year by Jennifer Robson
Loved this! Such a great historical fiction novel about three fictional characters whose lives intersect as London prepared for the coronation of Queen Elizabeth II. The book has endearing characters, a quickly-moving plot line, a nice twist, and a happy ending – all the things! Plus, the history of the queen was an added bonus for me as I love all things royal. Monarchists and lovers of English culture will like this book. This author has another book – The Gown – that I read several years ago and absolutely loved. Give this writer a try. 

Lost Roses by Martha Hall Kelly
Such a great tale of heroism and feminine grit. This is the second book I’ve read from this author, and I’ll read more. Set during World War I, this follows three women’s stories as they dealt with unimaginable hardship. WWII stories are very popular right now, and I love them, but this was an enlightening story of an era in history that doesn’t get as much press. This book is known as the second in the “Lilac Girls” series, but I was about three-quarters through the book before I realized the characters were related. You can read this without reading Lilac Girls and still understand what’s going on. 

The Lost Girls of Willowbrook by Ellen Marie Wiseman

Wow. My mind is blown simply because I cannot believe Willowbrook actually existed and the people living there were treated like animals. The story is set in the Willowbrook State School on Staten Island, New York. The author does an excellent job of detailing the conditions in this place, which were awful. It’s hard to read about this piece of history, but Wiseman’s writing and storytelling were so good that I couldn’t put it down. I would say this is history meets thriller. I will be reading more from this author.

The Guest List by Lucy Foley
This is a great whodunnit mystery that will keep you guessing until the end. I “read” the audio book, and I liked it because each chapter was told from the point of view of one character, so the head hopping is done in a very clear way. Each character has its own narrator, which made it even more interesting. The book starts at a private island wedding venue, and someone discovers a body. The entire book will keep you wrapped up wondering who the body is. Then when you find out, you gotta know who the killer is. All questions get answered in this excellent book.

The Reckoning by John Grisham

I read at least one John Grisham book each year, but this didn’t seem like a Grisham book. I think I would categorize this as a historical fiction with a thriller twist. True to Grisham, there is a lawyer in Mississippi (it’s Lucian Wilbanks’ dad for fans of A Time to Kill) and there is a murder, but then the book takes us through a man’s survival story in the World War II Pacific Theater, including the Bataan Death March. The historical aspect was well researched and tells the story of the horror some of our soldiers endured. This is not classic Grisham. It wasn’t my favorite Grisham. But it’s captivating. I listened to the audio book, and it was a great road trip story. 

The House in the Pines by Ana Reyes
Very imaginative writing! This book took me a while to get into, but the second half kept me captivated. I would classify this as a psychological thriller. The main character is targeted by a man that works at the library…and then it gets weird. There were a couple places where I got confused or wanted the story scenes to move better, but otherwise this was an intriguing read.

Between Sisters by Kristin Hannah
This was such a sweet book about two sisters that had been estranged for several years. But a family wedding brings something positive for them to focus on and work through their relationship. I truly enjoy Kristen Hannah’s writing. This is a quick read, surprising plot twist, and happy ending.

Long Road to Mercy by David Baldacci
I started reading Baldacci last year, and I continued this year. This is my favorite novel of his so far. I think I was able to relate to the main character, Atlee Pine, better than in his other books. Pine is a lone FBI field agent, stationed in the rural Arizona. Baldacci weaves some Grand Canyon facts into this thriller, and I was hooked. Excellent writing, plot development and research. 

Everything I Never Told You by Celeste Ng
This book was a good story. It grabbed my attention early and held it. I kept comparing it to Ng’s very popular book, Little Fires Everywhere, and just didn’t like it as well. I’ll read more from this author, though. She writes beautifully.

Carrie Soto is Back by Taylor Jenkins Reid
Taylor Jenkins Reid is a master at character development. I got pretty invested in Carrie Soto, even though the story dragged in places. I simply had to find out if she truly was back. 
The audio book features several narrators, which don’t come in until later in the book, and they felt a little out of place. The multiple narrators worked better for Daisy Jones and the Six – which gets a fun shout out. There are also some characters that appear from two other TJR books, and I love that she does that in her writing. This wasn’t Reid’s best book, but it was a fun summer read and a nice break from some of the heavier stuff that I read (see the non-fiction section).

One Italian Summer by Rebecca Serle
This book brought me through a one-month reading rut. This was a nice story about a young woman grieving her mother. She took the trip to Italy she and her mother had planned to take together. It’s a nice, relatable story, but with a huge, fun, completely unexpected plot twist. It was a good summer read.

A Minute to Midnight by David Baldacci
This is the second book in the Atlee Pine series. I really like the characters, the book is suspenseful, and I stayed interested. But I liked the first book in this series better. 

Queen Charlotte by Julia Quinn and Shonda Rhimes
It’s well written and a great story, but if you have seen Queen Charlotte on Netflix, you don’t need to read this book. The show follows the book really well, so it was very repetitive. It contains a lot more details of the characters’ thoughts, but otherwise it was a replay of the show.

Non-Fiction

Friends, Lovers, and the Big Terrible Thing by Matthew Perry
I read this back in March. It had been on my wish list in the Libby app since it was published several months prior. It broke my heart to read his story, and my heart is even more broken knowing that the remaining effects of his illness eventually ended his life. For anyone that has known someone struggling with addiction, this book provides a look inside an addict’s mind. I understand addiction better now, and it’s so so sad. Matthew Perry was so funny, and at times the book is funny. In all, though, it was just so sad to learn how the drugs and alcohol took the funny away. Matthew Perry has been my favorite since his first episode of Friends. Going through, what he called, the Big Terrible Thing, was hard, writing this book took mountains of courage. Enlightening, heartbreaking, funny, sad. Rest peacefully, Matty. 

Spare by Prince Harry
I bought this book the day it was released, and I loved it. You should know – I’m a royal enthusiast and have been since I watched Princess Diana’s wedding with my grandma. I’m a monarchist, Diana devotee, Elizabeth enthusiast, Fergie fanatic, captivated by The Crown, and I’m proud of it. 
It doesn’t matter if I think or if you think that Harry needs to “just get over it,” or if this is what Meghan signed up for, or if you think they were done wrong by the Family. What matters is this is his story, and I wanted his point of view. Was this a compelling page turner that I had to finish in three days? No. I already knew the ending. It was the messy middle I wanted to know about. Finally, we get an idea of what royal life is like on the inside from an insider. And it’s weird. As Harry himself put it “one very large, very ancient, very dysfunctional family.”
At times he contradicted himself, especially when you think about how much he wrote about his hatred of the media…then he uses the media to promote his book. But I don’t care. It was a compelling story about a family who lives and governs in a way that’s so different from what Americans know – and that’s why I’m so fascinated. I’ll wrap up with this. Don’t criticize the book or the Sussexes until you read the book. And I’m still a royal enthusiast.

Audition: A Memoir by Barbara Walters
I cried watching the obituary coverage of Barbara Walters on December 30, 2022. She is my hero, THE example of a journalist, and a part of American history. In honor of her, I had to read this as soon as it was available from Libby. I’m a little embarrassed to admit that I didn’t know she had written a book until I saw the news coverage of her death. The book was released in 2008 – I was in grad school then, so between theoretical frameworks and research methods, I had zero time for good books. 
Warning: the audio book is 27 hours. You’re gonna need a few road trips for this one. But her life was so interesting that I couldn’t step away for long. Also, she didn’t narrate it, which was a little disappointing, but it was good, nonetheless. 

A Full Life: Reflections at Ninety by Jimmy Carter 
I want it known that I read this book months before Rosalynn Carter died. I listened to it this summer; the audiobook is read by Mr. Carter. And oh, if politicians today were as gentlemanly, humble, kind, and faithful as Jimmy Carter. Although he wrote a book about his presidency shortly after he left office, I liked this because it was a reflection of his whole life. I so appreciate his honesty. He admitted his mistakes but explains them in hindsight. He also shares candid comments about the state of affairs at certain points of history since his presidency. 

Jimmy Carter is a world leader and national treasure. Instead of bellyaching about not being re-elected and calling his successor names, he established the Carter Center and found ways to contribute to our country and world. Mr. Carter was elected the year I was born, so it was enlightening to learn about the things that happened when I was too young to know better.

Cilka’s Journey (The Tattooist of Auschwitz #2) by Heather Morris
This was my first book of 2023, and it tore my heart out. If you read and liked The Tattooist of Auschwitz, you need to read this. It’s the story of one of the characters in that book, written by the same author. Cilka was a prisoner at Auschwitz, then she is imprisoned in Siberia. Her story is just awful, but a testament to the human spirit. I had to know what happened to her, and I got through the book very quickly. 

Finding Me by Viola Davis
A heartbreaking tale of triumph. Viola Davis clawed her way through extreme poverty and a raging alcoholic father to become one of the most renowned actresses of our time. Read this book. It provides great lessons about poverty, the impacts alcoholism has on an addict’s kids, the grind of being an aspiring actor in New York and the poverty associated with it, and the impacts of racism. I feel so enlightened after reading this. I have always liked Viola Davis’s work on screen. Her writing is just as good. She reads the audiobook.

The Ritchie Boys: The Untold Story of the Jews Who Escaped the Nazis and Returned with the US Army to Fight Hitler by Bruce Henderson
Excellent! The subtitle says it all: the Jews who escaped the Nazis and returned to fight Hitler. The book tells the story of several young men that got out of Germany, mostly in a heartbreaking manner, gained US citizenship, then fought the Nazis. This book took me a while to read, not because it wasn’t good, it was just so sad. I had to take breaks because I needed to read something happy. This should be required reading for every American. God bless those who fought for our country.

Hello Molly!: A Memoir by Molly Shannon

This book, written by the wonderfully hilarious Molly Shannon was so full of heart. I have loved Molly since her SNL days of Mary Kathryn Gallagher, Sally O’Mally, and scores of other characters, so I fully expected this book to make me belly laugh like Amy Pohler’s book. And it did. It also made me cry. Shannon lost her mother, sister, and cousin in a car accident when Molly was only four. Learning her story of how she processed her mom’s death as a little girl just broke my heart. It really helped me understand kids’ grief. 

The book was read by the author, which made it delightfully funny, especially when she did her characters’ voices. It also added a nice depth of emotion when her voice broke when she was telling a sad story.

Dinners with Ruth: A Memoir on the Power of Friendships by Nina Totenberg
This was the sweetest book about NPR’s Nina Totenberg’s friendship with one of America’s most powerful women. This isn’t a biography of Ruth Bader Ginsburg; rather, it’s Totenberg’s story of her career and her friendships. It’s an easy read, a testament of good journalism, and it teaches you how to be a better friend. The audio book is read by the author. 

My Travels with Mrs. Kennedy by Clint Hill
I love stories of the United States Secret Service, and I read this very close to the 60th anniversary of President Kennedy’s murder. Clint Hill is the Secret Service agent Mrs. Kennedy reached for when the president was shot in Dallas. They had a great respect and kinship for one other, and it was a pleasure to hear their stories, in his voice. The book is quick and holds attention. I’m looking for more books about the Secret Service, so please recommend!

Camera Girl: The Coming of Age of Jackie Bouvier Kennedy by Carl Sferrazza Anthony
I love all things about the Kennedy family (as evidenced by reading two books about them). Like other First Families, they’re the closest thing we have to royalty in the United States, but the Kennedys are elevated a bit. If you want the history of John F., there are dozens of other sources. I liked this book because it focused on Jackie – her youth, adolescence, and her career. Yes -career. She was a newspaper columnist, and a very good one. The book kept me interested, but if you have an interest in this family, I liked the audiobook Jacqueline Kennedy: Historic Conversations on Life with John F. Kennedy much better. It was an oral history and Jackie tells it. However, Camera Girl focuses on HER, and I liked that. I learned so much.

Leadership 101: What Every Leader Needs to Know by John Maxwell
The overarching message was clear: lead to help others succeed. The book was succinct. I listened to jt in one day. I think the written book would have been more effective. That way I could have taken it in smaller nuggets and processed it better.

There wasn’t a whole lot this year that I just couldn’t put down, so I would love to find something all-consuming in 2024. I have two goals for the coming year:

  • Read 24 books = 24 in 2024
  • Find a local book club

Please send me recommendations. I have a long list of books I want to read in Good Reads, but I like hearing suggestions from friends. Also, follow me on Good Reads.

I Wrote a Book!

Pure joy! The day I opened the box of my copies.

Wrote it, edited it, and I have my very own copy on my desk. This has been one of the most challenging and rewarding chapters (get it?) in my career. I have loved the process and have plans for more books someday, including a novel that is complete, but not published.

The book is called The Crisis Communications Guide for Agriculture, Food, & Natural Resources. I won’t go into the story of how the book came about. It’s in the introduction and acknowledgements of the book. Also, I talked about it a lot in my podcast, which can be found at the end of this post.

When I tell people about the book, I often get “I want to write a book,” or “my life is so bizarre, I should write a book.” I’m here to tell you, you should! And here are my words of encouragement.

Getting Started

Intense writing session. Fall 2021. Photo by Jett Irlbeck.

Before you start writing, have a topic. If it’s a novel, think of the story you want to tell. If it’s a textbook, think about the research you have amassed that would contribute to a certain group of students. Your audience does not have to be large. I teach a niche subject: agricultural communications. Think regular mass communications with a focus in agriculture/natural resources. It’s very specific and scientific. My book is even more focused than ag communications: it’s risk and crisis communications in agriculture, an extremely specialized style of communicating with a targeted industry of communicators.

I was 44 years old before I felt ready to write this content into a book form. Before that, a textbook was not a goal of mine. So, my first tip is don’t force a book. You need to be ready to write it. And even if you’re ready, do some checking to make sure no one else has written on this topic. There are dozens of books on risk and crisis communications, but none specifically focus on the ag industry, so that’s why I felt like it would be okay to move forward with my idea.

The Writing Process

Starting to write was difficult. I didn’t know where to start. I feel like I stared at a blank Word document for at least six hours trying to think about it. When that happens, schedule interviews. Dig through previous research. Look at other books. Pull information together.

Agriculture Crisis Management Framework by David Doerfert.

When I teach the risk and crisis communications in agriculture class, we heavily focus on the Agriculture Crisis Management Framework, created by David Doerfert. As I was pulling images and other materials together for the book, I opened that document, and there were the sections for my book: prevention, preparation, recognition, response, evaluation. I added a section called “for the media.” Again, the right approach came to me, so find other things to work on while you’re trying to find the right flow for your book.

I was fortunate enough to apply for and receive a faculty development leave grant from Texas Tech. This is also known as a sabbatical, and I did it in Fall 2021 with the full intention of finishing the whole text – that ended up being such an unrealistic goal for myself. The structure and most of the elements for the chapters were there, but it wasn’t finished at the end of my semester-long sabbatical. I felt like such a foolish failure. I want to go back and have a conversation with the August 2021 version of myself who had no idea what she was doing. A book takes a long time to write, certainly longer than four months. So, in December 2021, I revised my goal to have the book ready to market in the next 12 months.

I owe a great deal of credit to the Texas Tech Faculty Writing Program. It’s a program for faculty to get together at a designated time each week and spend three hours writing for academic purposes:  no email, no class prep, no grocery list making, just writing. In my three-hour weekly increments, I finished the manuscript.

Writing and Organizing

Screenshot of my initial sections.

This is a personal preference. Here are some ideas I toyed with to keep me organized:

  • One big Word document. I did this for the novel I wrote, so I knew better when I started the textbook. My textbook is 300 pages. Can you imagine scrolling 300 pages to fix one error? I don’t recommend.
  • Book writing software. There are several options, but basically, these apps are word processing software made for writers. They’re super helpful, and allow you to organize your notes, outlines, citations, and other elements. Scrivener was recommended to me by a friend, and I hear rave reviews; Grammarly is well loved; Final Draft and Storyist are two other options, but I don’t know much about them.
  • Word + good file management. This is the strategy I adopted after visiting with several people in the Faculty Writing Program. It’s very easy to spend a lot of your own money on a book (and I have), and this was one area where I chose to save. I created a word document for every chapter, then had my book units inside one folder. See the photo I took after finishing the initial manuscript for a visual. The printed version of the book looks slightly different. Some chapters got combined, one was added, some were cut completely. On occasion, I couldn’t find information that I knew I had written, which was annoying, but the Mac search tool is pretty good, and eventually I found what I knew I had.

Again, the way you organize is up to you, but do organize somehow. Another tip: keep permission forms for using quotes and/or images. I did an okay job of this, but there were a few forms I never could track down prior to publication. If I didn’t have a form, I deleted the direct quote or image from the book.

Another point of organization is keeping track of interview transcripts, names, and permission forms. If I interviewed you for this book, THANK YOU. If I cited you a lot, you’ll be getting a copy.

Finding a Publisher

Any time is a good time to find a publisher. In the podcast, you’ll hear my friends at XanEdu saying the same thing. Some publishers want a manuscript in the idea phase, others want it finished. Start any time; I started in January 2023.

When I had finished my manuscript, I posted the screenshot of my photos to Facebook, LinkedIn, Twitter (or whatever its name is), and Instagram. LinkedIn for the win! A colleague at another university tagged a friend of hers that works for a book publisher. I emailed the person, and we talked. That publisher didn’t print in higher ed, but she was so nice to run the list of publishers that had great sales in agriculture and forestry. XanEdu Publishing caught my eye from that list. I emailed them because they had a fun name. I submitted queries to several other publishers, I sent info to some of them, but I liked the personality of the people at XanEdu from the beginning. They were so personable, and we clicked. Finding a publisher is a lot like dating.

Working with the Publisher

Once we moved into more serious talking, XanEdu wanted the complete manuscript. I edited and did some major revisions at that point and turned it in on May 1, 2023. They had it professionally edited, and once I had those, it took me several more weeks to make those corrections. About this: check your ego when it comes to an editor. You hire an editor for a reason, and their job is to make your book better, so let them. Some of those edits felt personal, but they weren’t. I never met the editor, so it couldn’t be personal. I took as much time as I could to make the changes, then submitted.

The next step was page layout. When the book was designed, I received another copy to proof. This is where paranoia sets in. I found so many more mistakes! It was terrifying to know more mistakes could be out there.

I got one final look at the manuscript (found five more mistakes), then to the printer it went. In the middle of all the edits, we worked on the cover. I think it looks pretty cool. The Texas Tech Bookstore had their copies days before the semester started; my copies arrived on my front step. It was sheer joy to open that box and see my work inside.

Now that I have finished this, I feel like I am dripping with wisdom. So here are my additional points I wanted to say to myself and everyone else.

  • The book will never be perfect. Although I did not find a typo on first look, they’re probably there.
  • If you have purchased this book, please forgive me for any typos or grammar, spelling, punctuation errors. I did not carelessly create the book, but with 300 pages, there is bound to be a mistake.
  • Some chapters are too short, and more information is needed. I plan to gather all the mistakes I have made and create a second edition. I could probably even use a guest author for a few of the chapters, but that will come later.
  • I am giving myself grace and forgiveness for the mistakes in this book. It is very easy to see what’s wrong, or how I could have done it better, or how I could have worked harder. However, if I would have focused on the negatives, the book would still be in the editing phase.
  • There’s a sweet spot between “the book still needs work” and “publish the damn thing.” Ben and Mandy at XanEdu were wonderful in helping me realize it was time to quit picking at the text and publish. And yes, I could still be fussing over the book and making improvements, but those improvements would have been so small that it probably would not have made a big difference.
  • I make $5 per book sold. I didn’t write the book for the money. I wanted to get the information swimming in my head out onto paper; I wanted my students to have a text that was relevant to the ag industry; and a book is something that I have wanted to do since I was a kid. Also, the book company only sent me a handful of copies, so I really don’t have many copies in my possession to give away.
  • Don’t listen to haters. I have lived in paranoia for about a year now about the places people will poke holes in my book, the typos they’ll find, the comments about how they could do it better. If you are one of those haters, then please write a better book, and I don’t say that with (very much) sarcasm. I know someone else could do this book in a better way but guess what – I got it done. The landscape is wide open for more books, so stop talking and start writing.

Publishing a textbook is very different from a novel, but the writing process can be similar. Find that topic, dedicate time, and let those fingers fly all over the keyboard. And in case you didn’t get it, here again is the link to purchase the book.

Making the Best Better

I Pledge My Heart

I have been involved in 4-H all my life. Seriously! My investment started in this organization started when I was a baby in Fairview, Oklahoma. My mom was the Major County Cooperative Extension agent in the mid 1970s. A group of county agents got together to throw a baby shower when Mom was pregnant with me. She sometimes took me 4-H or Extension Homemakers meetings she would attend as part of her job.

Even in kindergarten, I proudly wore my “I go-pher 4-H” shirt

Later, mom taught home economics (that’s what it was called then, so don’t nag me for using an old term), and by default, she was the Carmen-Dacoma 4-H Club Leader. I thought those big kids were so cool in their Kelly-green t-shirts with giant four leaf clovers on them, and I longed for the day I could join too and show a lamb.

In the summer of 1985, we started with our first flock of show lambs. We aren’t very creative, so the lambs were named for the people that raised them: Joe (Hise), Les (McNalley), and Pete (Ward). I loved my lambs, except Pete. Pete was dumb and mean, and he dragged me through a sticker patch. As much as I loved that first group of lambs, I fell in love with all the other activities in 4-H.

I cooked, I sewed, I played the piano, I sang, I gave a speech. Mom had to fight me on doing that first speech – I didn’t want to get up in front of people and have them laugh at me. But moms know what they’re doing, and after I got through the first fears of public speaking, it got easier every time. As a club, we contributed to the community – we sang at the nursing home, built floats for the parade, and we painted the town fire hydrants (Dad had a pickup that still had globs of red paint all over it when he traded it in years later). I quickly realized the sheep were a lot of work, and pigs were so much easier, so my lamb project morphed into pigs. Through all of it, this program was molding me into a confident public speaker, a seamstress, a cook, a show jock, and a friend.

There were so many “big kids” that I looked up to: Tiara and Tiffany Leslie, Jan Webster, Tonya Lemmon, and several others in Woods County. One of the older members in our county went on the Citizenship Washington Focus trip, and as she told me about that trip, I knew I had to go as soon as I was old enough. There was a problem when I became eligible to go, though – no one in Woods County wanted to go with me. But I wanted to see our nation’s capitol so badly, I put on my brave face and signed up for the 1992 trip without knowing anyone that was going.

Balcony of the Kennedy Center, Washington, DC, 1992. Me, Shannon, & Cara.

At 4-H Roundup that year, a few weeks before the DC trip, I was in an etiquette workshop. The presenter asked, “Is anyone going on the 4-H trip to Washington?” A pretty blonde girl raised her hand, we smiled and waved at each other. At the end of the workshop, she came up to me with the thickest southern accent I think I have ever heard and said, “Hi, I’m Cara Bigger. I’m from Marshall County. I’m glad we got to meet before we go on the trip .”

I was so relieved when I loaded that bus to Washington, and there was Cara. It was almost a Forrest and Jenny moment (You can sit here if you want). I immediately latched on to her, and the rest is history. My 4-H friend quickly became one of my best friends. Also on that bus was an energetic, magnetic boy who became best friends with everyone on the bus. Enter Shannon Ferrell, Roger Mills County.

That trip and Bus #2 changed my life. I made fast friends and learned about so many other opportunities through this great organization. I quickly decided I wanted to be a state record book winner and go to National 4-H Congress in Chicago, we learned about scholarships, and various college opportunities. Nearly everyone on the bus said they wanted to go to Oklahoma State. Decision made: I was going to OSU, too. As it turned out, a lot of people on that trip actually did enroll at OSU.

Cara and I remained besties, we were state winners and went to Chicago together, then we were roomies our freshman year at OSU. We stayed friends, Cara married Shannon Ferrell from Roger Mills County, and our boys are a year apart in school.

Both of us are a testament for the power of 4-H. The program instills so many essential skills – public speaking, confidence, responsibility, writing, critical thinking, and above all, friendship. I attribute Oklahoma 4-H for many of the successes I have been fortunate to have today.

For My Community

When my son was about to turn eight, I began the search for a 4-H club for him to join. There wasn’t a club in the Lubbock school district. I could have taken him to one of the other clubs in the county, but I didn’t really want to drive that far. Something nagged at me to create a club, but I didn’t feel like I had the time. I texted Cara and told her to talk me out of creating a 4-H club. With 20 seconds my phone was ringing.

Still friends, 30 years later.

“You need to do this,” Cara said, more firmly than I have ever heard her speak before, and her accent has since waned.

“No way. I don’t have time for this. I probably should, I just don’t want to,” I whined.

“No, you do this. Nobody has time. But people our age don’t have time for anything, and this is a problem in our Sunday schools, scouts, and especially 4-H. You don’t have time to do it, but if you don’t make the time, nobody else is going to do it. Step up and do it,” she said.

Dang! But those were the words of support I needed to move forward and create a club. I had such a great experience in 4-H, it developed me far more than any other activity I did, so I insist my son participate. Again, the essential skills and the friends that a kid makes in this program are so important.

These skills lead to jobs. And if you’re really good, they can lead to a job that helps get other people find a job. That’s what happened for Cara. She was the assistant director of career services at OSU for several years before she had her little boy. She’s an expert in job and internship readiness, which is why I chose her to kick off Season 2 of my podcast, “So You Talk to Cows.” Cara shares her expertise in getting a job or internship, then being a good employee once someone gets that job. Have a listen. She provides excellent wisdom and advice.

And yes, Cara does talk to cows daily. Her son is now showing Hereford cattle, just like she did. Fun fact – Cara was the Oklahoma Hereford Queen in the mid 1990s.

Follow her lead, y’all. Share your expertise. Create opportunities for your child and other kiddos. Help others succeed. Make the best better.🍀

Rain on the Plains

For probably the third time in the 20 years that I have been married to a Swisher County boy, I saw rain in Tule Creek. Tule Creek, usually dry, has three forks, the Upper, Middle, and Lower Tule. The three finally merge together roughly five miles east of Tulia. This is the watershed that eventually feeds into Lake Mackenzie, which has been extremely low for the past few summers because of prolonged drought. The Texas Panhandle has a reputation for being a dry and brown place, but this year has proven us wrong. Just look at this photo! This is Tule Creek, bursting at the bank, rushing to Lake Mackenzie.

So happy! Nine inches of rain in five days in this rain gauge.

A year ago, the region was in extreme drought, and we cringed at the never-ending cracks in the ground as La Nina had a choke hold on the area. We prayed and prayed for rain all of last summer.

God answered this spring in a big way.

This has been one of the rainiest springs I can remember. The lakes across the area are full, the ground is saturated, and now we wait to plant sorghum and harvest wheat. The Panhandle is flat, really flat, but the landscape is dotted with what we call playa lakes. They’re indentations in the ground that collect water. Right now, they are way out of their banks,. A really cool phenomenon happens when the playa lakes fill – the frogs come out. And boy, were they talking. Check out this video of the frog song I captured. If you see me jerk the camera it’s because I was swatting mosquitos.

The landscape has awakened and it is bursting with color this spring. With the rain, though, we sometimes get hail. A lot of Scott’s wheat has hail damage. It’s so disheartening to work for months to grow a crop, only to see it get thrashed, and of course, the worst damage is on his best field. To be clear, this didn’t happen to all his wheat. His fields are spread over several miles, so some of the fields are fine.The pictures below show pitiful heads and grain on the ground. More rain and severe weather are in the forecast for the weekend. We’ll take the rain without complaints, but we can do without any more hail.

Podcast Episode 4: Farm Broadcasting – Tom Brand

Did you meet someone in your career and walk away thinking “that person was really nice.” I remember meeting Tom Brand at the National Association of Farm Broadcasters (that’s what it was called then) convention in 1996. My old boss, Rob McClendon, introduced me to him. A few days later, he won the organization’s Horizon Award – the NAFB version of Rookie of the Year or Best New Artist. Tom Brand has crushed it as a broadcaster, now as the director of the organization, ever since And he’s still really nice.

Tom Brand has always been very generous with his time and with the NAFB Convention schedule to student members. In this photo, he’s sharing his expertise with the student group at the 2017 convention.

National Association of Farm Broadcasting (NAFB) is a professional organization for professionals working in agricultural broadcasting as well as those working in marketing, advertising, and public relations. It’s a great group that has evolved and worked to create opportunities for leadership and professional development and fosters technological change.

Agricultural radio is as ingrained in our society as the radio itself. It is a vital source of information for our nation’s farmers and ranchers, and it will continue to be so for years to come. Like agricultural technology, broadcast technology will evolve, but as long as farmers and ranchers drive tractors and pickups, there will be a critical need for agricultural broadcasting.

We delve deeper into to this in my interview with Tom Brand.

Podcast Episode 3: Clinton Griffiths

Clinton Griffiths. Image from Farm Journal Media.

I used to tease Clinton Griffiths that he followed in my footsteps. I graduated from Oklahoma State in 1998, he graduated four years later. We both interned for SUNUP, a television show produced by Oklahoma Cooperative Extension, when we were OSU ag comm students. I worked in local news, Clinton worked in local news. I worked for AgDay, then Clinton went to work for AgDay. That’s when our career paths split and his took on an astronomical trajectory. Clinton reached agricultural superstardom as the anchor of AgDay Television, and now he’s the editor of Farm Journal. He’s an outstanding reporter, all around great agricultural communicator, and a good human.

Clinton is the editor of Farm Journal. It’s the oldest agricultural publication in the United States, first published in 1877 in Philadelphia. Over the years, Farm Journal has expanded into a media group that encompasses several brands that many people in agriculture know: AgDay Television, US Farm Report, AgriTalk, ProFarmer, AgWeb, Drovers, and more. As our old boss, Brian Conrady, put it, Farm Journal is the ESPN of agriculture. And it’s true. Farm Journal owns magazines, television shows, radio shows, websites, and more. It’s truly amazing this company has withstood through all the changes in publishing technology as well as agricultural technology.

A very early issue of Farm Journal.

In this podcast, Clinton spends a lot of time discussing interviewing, and describes it as one of the skills a communicator should develop to be more effective. Preparation, developing effective questions, and learning to keep the interview short are all things that should always be remembered, but they’re also skills that come with time and practice.

Clinton and Farm Journal are both available online and through social media.

Farm Journal online. The company has a GREAT YouTube channel: @FarmJournal
AgWeb, the parent site for all the Farm Journal companies. AgWeb is also on Facebook, Insta & Twitter: @agwebeditor,
AgDay, where you can find Clinton every morning.

Clinton is searchable on LinkedIn, Twitter: @ClintonReports, and Insta: @clinton_griffiths

Here’s the link to the podcast in Spotify:

Podcast Episode 2: Emily McCartney Photography

Sweet Emily. Chilling on the beach in Belize, 2014

Every now and then, a student comes along and you know they are dripping with talent. Emily McCartney was one of those. I remember Emily in her first year as an agricultural communications student at Texas Tech. Sweet, mature, driven, prepared – everything I wanted in a student. And then I saw her photos. She had “it.”

In her first year, she signed up to go to Belize on my study abroad trip. We had so much fun: a group of 14 students (plus Scott) traveling through the tropical country to see bananas, spices, shrimp, Maya ruins, caves, monkeys, rivers, and of course, the beach. Any time we saw something we wanted good photos of, we handed Emily the camera. Even then – on a trip with a group of college students in a place that had plenty of opportunity to go wild – she showed immense maturity and poise, and she was so precious to be around.

My first study abroad group to Belize. Emily is standing, right in the middle in the white shirt.

As she moved through Texas Tech, at one point, I asked her what she was planning to do after graduation. “Photography,” she said, so sure of herself. A lot of students tell me they really like photography or they might be interested in it as a career, but there are only a few that tell me they want to go into photography and I know they’ll make it. I had no doubt Emily would crush it. Since graduation her career has exponentially grown, yet she is always willing to speak to students, be interviewed for brand new podcast experiments, and she was even on the cover of our department’s magazine, the Agriculturist.

As you’ll hear in the podcast, Emily got her start in the 4-H photography contest. As a 4-H leader and mom, I love hearing success stories like this. The 4-H contest is a relatively inexpensive contest and a great way to get your kiddo plugged into 4-H. Find more here.

A few of the big takeaways in this podcast episode: you don’t have to have all the gear to be a great photographer, use the light that’s there rather than trying to set up a bunch of lights, and straighten crooked horizons, it’s a simple fix with basic editing software. Emily mentioned VSCO as her fave social media platform. I’m ashamed I didn’t know about it before, but as I was looking up the link, I somehow lost 30 minutes. Be prepared to spend hours looking at great photos.

Emily is easy to find:
Website
Facebook
Insta: @roadrunnergallery and @e_mccart

Here’s the link to the episode. I’m still having trouble embedding. But I’m on Spotify and Amazon Music now! (Waiting on Apple Podcasts).

https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/3c70b280-b9d1-4b47-9ac9-a3b436b0c337/episodes/ed4b248e-3c1a-41de-9b34-ed8d2715eac2/so-you-talk-to-cows-a-podcast-for-agricultural-communicators-emily-mccartney

So, You Talk to Cows?

Here I am, waiting to talk to cows.

Ugh! That question makes me cringe! I am a professor of agricultural communications, I majored in ag communications, I love ag comm, and so I very proudly tell people about my industry. But so many times, when I tell people what I teach, I get asked the question that makes every agricultural communicator grind their teeth, roll their eyes, and heavy sigh: So, do you talk to cows? (Followed by dumb laughter, as if they are the first person to come up with this joke.)

If someone is from the Midwest, they’ll ask if I talk to corn. Occasionally, a clever individual will ask me if I teach cows to talk – that one makes me chuckle a tiny bit. It’s such a joke amongst agricultural communicators that my coworkers and students made a fun video about for April Fool’s Day in 2016. See the end of this post for the video. It’s brilliant.

For the spring semester of 2023, I wanted to try a fun and different way to reach my students. I know they don’t like reading, but they do like podcasts, and I like podcasts too. I have wanted to host a podcast for a while now, so the idea to combine a teaching tool with a creative outlet seemed fun. Plus, this was an efficient way to do some occasional broadcasting. I decided to interview some of my favorite a agricultural communicators from across the nation and provide those interviews to my students, then I’ll release them out to everyone else that might want to listen. Plus the podcasts are a way to connect with people that don’t live here in Lubbock and share their stories with my students.

Now, what to name this podcast? I asked everyone I knew for a suggestion and compiled a long list of lameness. Then, my husband’s former boss, Sally Post, made the joke. “Call it ‘Erica Talks to Cows’.” After I finished rolling my eyes and threatened to kick her out of my house for using the tired joke, I realized she was on to something. Everyone that works in ag comm has heard that, so if I played with the name, the communicators would get it. Sally Post, you’re a genius!

For the early episodes, I’m going to follow the order of my course schedule – print journalism (newspapers, magazines, photos), face to face communications, radio, television, public relations, then as I get into the summer, I’ll have less of an order. I love talking to and learning from others, and I want my students to learn from as many professionals as possible. So if you want to be on the show, send me an email and we’ll set something up!

My first guest is someone that I met very early in my career, and she has always been so helpful and just nice to everyone. Shelley Huguley is the editor of Southwest Farm Press, an agricultural newspaper that serves Texas, New Mexico, and Oklahoma. Shelley is an excellent writer and editor and has always been so helpful to us here at Texas Tech. I got acquainted with her when I was a reporter at KLBK and she was the communications director for the Texas Forest Service in the Lubbock region. She always had great story ideas and was extremely friendly. She shares some of her ideas about writing and photography in this podcast episode.

Southwest Farm Press is a top notch publication: one of the best. They serve the readership well and connect to other publications owned by Farm Progress. I have tremendous respect for this publication and the writers they employ. Take a look at the website that I linked. They have done a great job of embracing multiple platforms of ag journalism. Also, find them on Twitter: @farmpress

Here’s the podcast. I can’t get the player to embed into WordPress and welcome any suggestions on how to fix it. And yes, I googled how to do it.

https://www.buzzsprout.com/2134477/12250367-agricultural-publications-shelley-huguley.js?container_id=buzzsprout-player-12250367&player=small

And now the super fabulous talking to cows video: